Cyberbullying

Cyberbullying is willful and repeated bullying using digital communication or posting designed to hurt, threaten, embarrass, annoy, blackmail, or target another person. It can involve text, gaming devices, websites, social media, emails, blogs, cell phones, etc. Unlike traditional bullying, it can happen anywhere at all hours of the day.

Over 37% of young people report experiencing cyberbullying during their lifetime.

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Features of Cyberbullying

Different from traditional bullying, specific effects are amplified when cyberbullying occurs, which can also explain why cyberbullying has increased over time.

Role of Publicity: The public and permanent nature of cyberbullying compared to traditional bullying can cause greater overall embarrassment for the victim.

Role of Anonymity: The anonymous nature of cyberbullying can increase feelings of loneliness, fear, and persistent worrying about the perpetrator's identity for the victim.

Role of Persistence: Immediate and continuous access to digital media can cause ongoing distress, leading to hopelessness and helplessness. Even when a post gets removed, hundreds of people have already seen it.

Role of Supervision: The virtual nature of cyberbullying can make it more difficult for adults to oversee, witness, or recognize bullying behaviors leading to a slower response and sometimes less effective intervention.

Signs of Cyberbullying

Like traditional bullying, several signs may be present when someone is cyberbullied.

  • Abnormal changes in mood or behavior, such as new or worsened depression, or heightened anxiety or fear

  • Avoidance of friends, activities, or school

  • Sudden aversion to using a phone or computer

  • Nervous or agitated when receiving a text

  • Extreme sleeping behaviors

Negative Effects of Cyberbullying

Children who are targets of cyberbullying are likely also to experience traditional bullying. In addition, cyberbullying is associated with symptoms of social anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, somatic symptoms, and low self-confidence and esteem. The effects of cyberbullying are similar to that of bullying, including negative psychological, physical, social, and academic impacts.

The effects of cyberbullying vary from traditional bullying for the following reasons:

It can occur at home: When an online bully follows you home, it takes away your safe space.

It is harsher: People say things online that they wouldn't dream of saying in person.

It can be far-reaching: Cyberbullying is easier to send embarrassing information to a large number of people at once.

It can be anonymous: Online aggressors often hide behind their screen names so that they don't have to identify who they are.

It may be inescapable: Sometimes, it's more challenging than logging off. When cyber aggressors attack from all angles, it can seem impossible to escape.

The information above was disseminated by published material from Stopbullying.gov, the National Bullying Prevention Center (“Pacer”), and the Cyberbully Research Center.

Over 60% of students who experience cyberbullying reported that it immensely impacted their ability to learn and feel safe while at school.

(Hinduja, 2018)

Bullying & Cyberbullying Laws

Below you can view a list of the current bullying and cyberbullying legislation. You can also locate your state's bullying and cyberbullying laws at stopbullying.gov

State Anti-Bullying Legislation Overview

An overview of state anti-bullying legislation and other related laws by Sacco, Silbaugh, Casey, and Doherty (2012). Learn More

MO Education Laws

Missouri Schools General Provisions Section 160.775: Every district shall adopt an anti-bullying policy by September 1, 2007. Learn More

Cyberbullying Laws

A regularly updated Laws, Policies & Regulations webpage by Stopbullying.gov provides a brief overview and link to each state's cyberbullying laws.  Learn More

Sexting Laws

A regularly updated fact sheet by the Cyberbullying Research Center provides a brief overview and link to each state's sexting laws. Learn More

Immediate Crisis Hotlines

If you or someone you know is in suicidal crisis or emotional distress, call the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 9-8-8, a free 24-hour hotline. In the case of a life-threatening emergency, call 9-1-1 or visit your nearest emergency room. Below is an additional list of crisis resources.